What ever happens, Life has to go on..

Frequent readers of my blog would have noticed that I am not very active these days, especially for the past one month.

Many things have happened in the past one to two weeks which have made me to realize that nothing is permanent in this world and how powerless we are in controlling the things which happen around us. I have read the quote “The only thing that is constant in this world is change” so many times but it is only now that I have experienced and realized the exact meaning of this phase.

I don’t usually write about personal things which happen in my life so those who are close to me (in the physical world) would know what I am talking about. This past week (and the thing which happened) has changed the priorities in my life. The things which appeared to be of high priority have gone down the list and some have left the list all together. It is only when you pass through the phase of immense sadness; you realize the importance of life.
Well, what ever happened is happened and it’s time for me to realize that life has to go on. And I guess I am recovering and will be in a position to overcome it.
What ever happens, Life has to go on…

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  • Aswin Anand says:

    I came to know about it 🙁 Very sorry to hear about that.

  • Sudar says:


    Thanks for your support.


  • Chandru says:

    Sorry da, Am extremly Sorry….. 🙁

  • Sudar says:

    Hi Chandru,

    Thanks for showing support. As I said I am recovering and hopefully will recover soon.


  • Anonymous says:


    I dont know wht the problem is….But pls dont loose ur heart, everything will be fine soon. Take Care…


    • Sudar says:


      It’s been nearly two years I am yet to fully recover from that incident. No one can replace the void which has been created by that incident.

      Anyways life has to go on and I am trying to cope with it. Thanks for your support.

  • vinay says:

    Hi Friend,

    Same as you last week I had the experience where I came to know that no one will be with you and even the best of ones who like you will out to leave you .In practical terms after a deep struggle of 3 months where I lost every hope in life I came to realize that there are things which are to be accepted and no one can change the destiny that is on for us.I am in an early stage of pain and I hope I feel that its not only or me in this world and its a change that comes in every life where you need to accept the truth.

    Hope my dear friend I too will recover from this bad patch and hope I will realize that every thing has to be accepted in Life…..

  • Juno says:


    Its the way life is, Many times we may not be knowing why we are living, But We are living (May be its our inner hunger/desire to live makes us to live).

    There are thousands and thousands have faced, lived the life we are living, We are not living a unique life, its not possible too, Even if we live in different way its not going to make any difference in this vast world

    My Point is, Please understand that the problems we have faced have given the insight “Change is constant”, But almost every living kind have understood it, All who understood are again living, Means that, again “Whatever happens life has to go”, and one way on the other way they have the hope, hope of living, So, We all shall play our game of life.

    By the way, In the month of May’2007, while surfing, for some reason, I had happened to read this blog,

    For my good ness, I am not sure, again, with no intension, I had happened the same aritcle again, and also seen some new entries of comment, that too very recent months, which makes me to think, that people are really looking to know “Life has to go on”

    Feeling Sad for other new incidents of life, And Dont give up ur hope
    Because, Life has to go on
    Juno R

  • Sameet says:

    “Life must go on; I forget just why.”
    “Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.”
    “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.”
    “Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”
    “Anyone can give up, it’s the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that’s true strength.”
    “Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.”
    “And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.”
    “Life must go on; I forget just why”

  • Devi says:

    Dear Sudar,

    I dont know what your problem is….But whatever happens happens for good. God does everything inorder to mould us into a diamond. Will pray for you.You do pray for me as my husband has filed a divorce case. Take Care…

    Prayers & Regards,


  • Saravanan says:

    Hi Friend

    Nice lines ….

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